The Body Buffet is a fillable workbook to help you get clearer on what you want, and how to ask for it.
Across 32 pages, it walks you through 18 kinds of physical touch, from massage and kissing to kink gear and group play. It also opens up the parts most sex menus leave out: body boundaries, safer sex, non-physical intimacy, sounds and responses, aftercare, fantasies, and the words you actually want said about your body.
Built on Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent and Mia Schachter's Yes-to-No Spectrum, it gives you the language to make your requests for touch specific, and safe.
Fill it in on your own. Share it with a lover. Come back to it in a year and see what's changed. Your body, and your pleasure, are always evolving.
The Body Buffet is a fillable workbook to help you get clearer on what you want, and how to ask for it.
Across 32 pages, it walks you through 18 kinds of physical touch, from massage and kissing to kink gear and group play. It also opens up the parts most sex menus leave out: body boundaries, safer sex, non-physical intimacy, sounds and responses, aftercare, fantasies, and the words you actually want said about your body.
Built on Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent and Mia Schachter's Yes-to-No Spectrum, it gives you the language to make your requests for touch specific, and safe.
Fill it in on your own. Share it with a lover. Come back to it in a year and see what's changed. Your body, and your pleasure, are always evolving.